Criticism is futile

Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself. Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person’s precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, and arouses resentment.

Executing fulfills us

The truth is that executing fulfills many of the things that we crave in our everyday lives. It gives us a sense of accomplishment, it gives us a sense that we’re contributing in some way, and it gives a strong sense of pride in the work that we ship.

Moments of Pride

And moments of pride capture us at our best — showing courage, earning recognition, conquering challenges. This is not just working hard. This is your skill getting noticed by someone else and they tell you about it or recognize it so that you feel the pride.

Superiority

When you are succeeding beyond others, it’s easy to get a big head. You can begin to think you’re special, separate from, better than, or more important than other people.

People Aren’t Thinking About You

Most people aren’t thinking about you at all. And even when you put yourself in front of them to make a request and they say no, within minutes they’re right back to not thinking about you. They’re too busy dealing with their own life.